Melissa Erin Monahan, M.A., LCAT - New York State Licensed Psychotherapist



Calling in "The One" Private Coaching


Calling in 'The One' Book Cover

Leading luminaries such as Deepak Chopra, Neale Donald Walsch and Marianne Williamson are celebrating Calling in “The One” as a uniquely powerful, trailblazing, approach to love and soul-mate partnership in the 21st century. Why? It begins where few other approaches do—on the inside.

Based on the bestselling book Calling in “The One” by Katherine Woodward Thomas, M.A., MFT, this internationally renowned and transformative process is designed to powerfully support you to identify and release the inner obstacles to love. 

As a private coaching structure, Calling in "The One" begins with a formal (60-minutes) introductory session. If we decide the program is a fit for you at this time, we become partners in your transformation.




In seven Calling in “The One” private sessions

with Melissa you will:



~ Set a powerful intention and anchor into your vision of love fulfilled.


~ Learn to identify your healthy needs in relationship.


~ Identify and transform your limiting false beliefs about yourself, love and relationships.


~ Begin to cultivate the profound, yet practical, skills of self-love as the foundation for extraordinary love and partnership with another. 


~ Become magnetic to the love of your life---your Soul's true match---by becoming a vibrational match to your Soul first. 


~ Lovingly transform chronic self-abandonment which is the number one reason why relationships fail. 


~ Understand and learn to trust the invaluable wisdom of your emotions---your inner guidance system.


~ Learn how to take consistent and loving responsibility for the way you feel.


~Lovingly evolve beyond co-dependence and embrace your inherent wholeness.


 ~ Cultivate the skills and capacities of your own spiritually-connected loving adult self. 



~ Discover how to create a welcoming space for love in your life. 


~ Source your sense of self from the deeper truth of who you are.


~ Cultivate your capacity to give and receive great love.


~ Complete the relationships of the past: renegotiate old agreements, release old resentments, and create empowered relationships in all areas of your life.


~ Connect with your own, personal, source of unconditional love that is always, always, there in a way that transforms your life and relationships from the inside-out.


~ Make a clear and powerful commitment to yourself as the foundation for making, and receiving, that same quality of commitment from another. 


~ Connect with your future partner in a way that powerfully and lovingly transforms who you're being in the present.


~Define your worth through the eyes of unconditional love and wisdom.


~ Learn how to fill yourself with love so that you are entering a relationship to share love rather than get love. (This is the shift that shifts everything.)


 


Let Your Love Intention Be Your North Star

What You Can Expect Step-by-Step:


Introductory Session: The Secrets to Attracting Love 


~Initial exploration of your relationship history and patterns.

~Assessment of your hidden, inner, barriers to love. 

~Setting the Calling in "The One" Intention.


Session One: Preparing For Love 


~Become generative of love everywhere as you shift focus from love as something "to get" to love as something to become. 

~Identify your healthy needs in relationship.

~Identify how your relationship with self has been mirrored in the relationship

with others.

~Vision and access a somatic experience of love fulfilled.

~Identify how to shift your home environment and create a physical space

to receive love. 


Session Two: Completing the Past


~Engage a process of releasing past resentments.

~Identify and renegotiate covert agreements from the past.

~Identify and transform toxic tie dynamics with an empowering focus on self as source.

~Identify and begin to transform the false beliefs about yourself, and others, inside of past wounds.


Session Three: Transforming

Your "Love Identity" Core Beliefs


~Begin to heal and transform the number one reason why relationships ultimately fail: your own self-abandonment.

~Discover why taking responsibility for the way you feel is necessary to create a successful relationship with another. 

~Begin to cultivate your own spiritually-connected loving adult self. 

~Learn to access your own, personal, source of unconditional love as the foundation for extraordinary love and partnership with another. 

~Transform your wounded false beliefs---your hidden inner barriers to love.

~Experience a transformation of your beingness. 

~Identify new ways of relating that are in alignment with who you are on a Soul level.

~Become a vibrational match to your Soul in order to attract, and create,

a thriving relationship with your Soul's Mate.   




Session Four: Activating Your Magnetic Power


~Powerfully release the past and embrace the future.   

~Create a somatic vision of love fulfilled sourced from the deeper truth of who you are on a Soul level. 

~Learn to magnetically (and quickly) close the vibrational gap with who you really are. 

~Revisit the original Calling in "The One" Intention.

~Identify your sense of self inside the future of love fulfilled and begin to embody this version of you in the present.


Session Five: Becoming "The One"


~Make a solid commitment to yourself as the foundation for making,

and receiving, a commitment from your future partner.

~Deepen into the cultivation of your own spiritually-connected loving adult self. 

~Identify the underlying motivation around the impulse to give to others and cultivate "healthy selfishness" as the basis for healthy partnership.

~Anchor into a deep sense of worthiness to receive love.

~Create deeper truth statements around your attractiveness and desirability.


 



Session Six: Aligning with Your "Love Destiny"


~Deepen into the profound, yet practical, skills of evolving self-love. 

~Continue to deepen into the cultivation of your spiritually-connected loving adult self. 

~Develop your capacity to self-soothe.

~Learn to take radical, loving and empowered emotional self-responsibility.

~Articulate your deeper feelings, needs and desires to others. 

~Deepen into your ability to access your own, personal, source of unconditional love as the foundation for extraordinary love and partnership with another.


Session Seven: Manifesting Your Soul's Mate


~Source your identity from the future of love fulfilled.

~Anchor into a deeply somatic, unflinching, magnetic knowing that great love

and partnership is not only possible but inevitable.

~Experience a personalized visioning that directly connects you with your source of love and guidance as well as your future partner. 

~Identify new developmental structures that support your evolution as "The One"

who is a vibrational match to your Soul

and, of course, your Soul's Mate.




Private sessions are conducted on phone, Skype

or FaceTime. 


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Calling in "The One" Integration Coaching 



Integration coaching is available for individuals who have completed

the seven-step

Calling in "The One" process.





Private sessions are conducted on phone, Skype

or FaceTime. 


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