Melissa Erin Monahan, M.A., LCAT - New York State Licensed Psychotherapist



Calling in "The One" Private Coaching


Calling in 'The One' Book Cover

"Before you love another, you must first learn to love yourself."

Many, especially those ready to experience great love and partnership, will nod their heads in agreement. Then comes the deeper (and very honest) question: "How? What does it actually mean to love myself first?"

Calling in "The One" is "the how" celebrated by leading luminaries of our time such as Deepak Chopra, Arielle Ford, Neale Donald Walsch, Gabrielle Bernstein and Dr. Margaret Paul.

Based on the bestselling book Calling in “The One” by Katherine Woodward Thomas, M.A., MFT, this internationally renowned and transformative process is designed to powerfully support you to identify and release the inner obstacles to love. 

You see, we come together at our common level of self-abandonment or self-love.

Magnificent, ever-evolving, relationships just don't happen.

They require a devotion to the inner work since the relationship with another can only be as good as the relationship with yourself.

You must first become "The One" you are wanting to attract. 

As a private coaching structure, Calling in "The One" begins with a formal (60-minutes) introductory session. If the program is a fit for you at this time, we become partners in your transformation.




In eight Calling in “The One” private sessions

with Melissa you will:



~ Set a powerful intention and anchor into your vision of love fulfilled.


~ Learn to identify your healthy needs in relationship.


~ Identify and transform your limiting false beliefs about yourself, love and relationships.


~ Begin to cultivate the profound, yet practical, skills of self-love as the foundation for extraordinary love and partnership with another. 


~ Become magnetic to the love of your life---your Soul's true match---by becoming a vibrational match to your Soul first. 


~ Heal your own self-abandonment which is the number one reason why relationships fail. 


~ Understand and learn to trust the invaluable wisdom of your emotions---your inner guidance system.


~ Learn how to take consistent and loving responsibility for the way you feel.


~Evolve beyond co-dependence and embrace your inherent wholeness.


 ~ Cultivate the skills and capacities of your own spiritually-connected loving adult self. 


~Become the conscious co-creator of your experience and understand the role of frequency.



~ Discover how to create a welcoming space for love in your life. 


~ Source your sense of self from the deeper truth of who you are.


~ Cultivate your capacity to give and receive great love.


~ Complete the relationships of the past: renegotiate old agreements, release old resentments, and create empowered relationships in all areas of your life.


~ Connect with your own personal source of unconditional love, wisdom, worthiness and guidance that is always (always) there in a way that transforms your life and relationships from the inside-out.


~ Make a clear and powerful commitment to yourself as the foundation for making, and receiving, that same quality of commitment from another. 


~ Connect with your future partner in a way that powerfully and lovingly transforms who you're being in the present.


~Define your worth through the eyes of unconditional love and wisdom.


~Begin to master the arts of allowing and manifestation. 


~ Learn how to fill yourself with love so that you are entering a relationship to share love rather than get love. (This is the shift that shifts everything.)


 


Let Your Love Intention Be Your North Star

What You Can Expect Step-by-Step:


Introductory Session: The Secrets to Attracting Love 


~Initial exploration of your relationship history and patterns.

~Assessment of your hidden, inner, barriers to love. 

~Set the Calling in "The One" Intention.


Session One: Preparing For Love 


~Become generative of love everywhere as you shift focus from love as something

"to get" to love as something to become. 

~Identify your healthy needs in relationship.

~Identify how your relationship with self has been mirrored in the relationship

with others.

~Vision and access a somatic experience of love fulfilled.

~Identify how to shift your home environment and create a physical space

to receive love. 


Session Two: Completing the Past


~Engage a process of releasing past resentments.

~Identify and renegotiate covert agreements from the past.

~Identify and transform toxic tie dynamics with an empowering focus on self as source.

~Identify and begin to transform the false beliefs about yourself, and others, inside

of past wounds.


Session Three: Transforming

Your "Love Identity" Core Beliefs


~Begin to heal and transform the number one reason why relationships ultimately fail: your own self-abandonment.

~Discover why taking responsibility for the way you feel is necessary to create

a successful relationship with another. 

~Begin to cultivate your own spiritually-connected loving adult self. 

~Learn to access your own personal source of unconditional love, wisdom, worthiness and guidance as the foundation for extraordinary love and partnership with another. 

~Transform your wounded false beliefs---your hidden inner barriers to love.

~Experience a transformation of your beingness. 

~Identify new ways of relating that are in alignment with who you are on a Soul level.

~Become a vibrational match to your Soul in order to attract and create

a thriving relationship with your Soul's Mate.   




Session Four: Activating Your Magnetic Power


~Powerfully release the past and embrace the future.   

~Create a somatic vision of love fulfilled sourced from the deeper truth

of who you are on a Soul level. 

~Learn to magnetically (and quickly) close the vibrational gap with who you really are. 

~Revisit the original Calling in "The One" Intention.

~Identify your sense of self inside the future of love fulfilled.


Session Five: Becoming "The One"


~Make a solid commitment to yourself as the foundation for making

(and receiving) a commitment from your future partner.

~Deepen into the cultivation of your own spiritually-connected loving adult self. 

~Cultivate unconditional self-love as the basis for healthy partnership. (What is loving to you is loving to the other.)

~Create deeper truth statements around your attractiveness and desirability.


 



Session Six: Aligning with Your "Love Destiny"


~Deepen into the profound (yet practical) skills of evolving self-love. 

~Continue the cultivation of your spiritually-connected loving adult self. 

~Develop your capacity to self-soothe.

~Learn to take radical, loving and empowered emotional self-responsibility.

~Articulate your deeper feelings, needs and desires to others. 

~Deepen into your ability to access your own personal source of unconditional love, wisdom, worthiness and guidance as the foundation for extraordinary love

and partnership with another.


Session Seven: Manifesting Your Soul's Mate


~Source your identity from the future of love fulfilled.

~Anchor into a deeply magnetic knowing that great love

and partnership is not only possible but inevitable.

~Experience a guided visioning that directly connects you

with your future self and partner.

~Identify new developmental structures that support your evolution as "The One"

who is a vibrational match to your Soul

and, of course, your Soul's Mate.




Private sessions are conducted on phone, Skype

or FaceTime. 


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Calling in "The One" Advanced Integration Coaching 

for Individuals and Couples 



Advanced integration coaching is available for individuals and couples

who have completed

the seven-step

Calling in "The One" process.





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or FaceTime. 


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