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Calling in "The One"

Private Coaching 

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"Before you love another, you must first learn to love yourself."

Many, especially those ready to experience great love and partnership, will nod their heads in agreement. Then comes the deeper (and very honest) question: "How? What does it actually mean to love myself first?"

Calling in "The One" provides a powerful structure and foundation for "the how." 

Based on the (revised and expanded) bestselling book Calling in “The One” by Katherine Woodward Thomas, M.A., MFT, this internationally renowned and transformative process is designed to support you to identify and release the inner obstacles to love. 

You see, we come together at our common level of self-abandonment or self-love.

Magnificent and ever-evolving relationships just don't happen.

They require a devotion to the inner work since the relationship with another can only be as good as the relationship with yourself.

You must become "The One" you are wanting to attract. 

Calling in "The One" begins with a formal (60-minutes) introductory session.

If the program is a fit for you at this time, we become partners in your transformation.

In eight Calling in “The One” private sessions

with Melissa you will:

~ Set a powerful intention and anchor into your vision of love fulfilled.

~ Learn to identify your feelings and needs as a core skill and capacity. 

~ Identify and transform your limiting false beliefs about yourself, love and relationships.

~ Begin to cultivate the profound (yet practical) skills of self-love as the foundation for extraordinary love and partnership with another. 

~ Become magnetic to the love and relationship you desire by becoming a vibrational match to your Soul first. 

~ Heal the number one reason why relationships fail: your own self-abandonment. 

~ Understand (and learn to trust) the invaluable wisdom of your emotions—your inner guidance system.

~ Learn how to take consistent and loving responsibility for the way you feel.

~Begin to evolve beyond co-dependence and embrace your inherent wholeness.

~ Cultivate the skills and capacities of your own spiritually-connected loving adult self. 

~Become the conscious co-creator of your experience and understand the role of frequency.

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~ Discover how to create a welcoming space for love in your life. 

~ Source your sense of self from the deeper truth of who you are.

~ Cultivate your capacity to give and receive great love.

~ Complete the relationships of the past by renegotiating old agreements and releasing old resentments. 

~ Connect with your own personal source of unconditional love, wisdom, worthiness and guidance that is always (always) there in a way that transforms you from the inside out.

~ Make a clear and powerful commitment to yourself as the foundation for making (and receiving) that same quality of commitment from another. 

~ Connect with your future partner in a way that powerfully and lovingly transforms who you're being in the present.

~Define your worth through the eyes of unconditional love and wisdom.

~ Learn how to fill yourself with love so that you are entering a relationship to share love rather than get love. (This is the shift that shifts everything.)

~Come "home" to yourself as "The One" and the qualities of a healthy relationship: Empathy, good character, respect, consistency, patience, kindness, compassion, mutuality, communication, laughter, playfulness, safety, growth, commitment, best friendship, joint values and the sharing of love. 

Let Your Love Intention Be Your North Star

Introductory Session 

~Initial exploration of your relationship history and patterns.

~Assessment of your hidden (inner) barriers to love. 

~Set the Calling in "The One" Intention.

Step One: 

Preparing For Love 

~Shift focus from love as something

"to get" to love as something to become and share with a partner.  

~Identify your healthy needs in relationship.

~Identify how your relationship with self has been mirrored in the relationship

with others.

~Vision and access a somatic experience of love fulfilled.

Step Two:

Completing the Past 

~Engage a process of releasing past resentments.

~Identify and renegotiate covert agreements from the past.

~Identify and begin to transform toxic and narcissistic relational dynamics.

~Identify and begin to transform the false beliefs of past wounds.

Step Three: 

Your Love Identity 

~Begin to heal and transform the number one reason why relationships ultimately fail: your own self-abandonment.

~Discover why taking responsibility for the way you feel is necessary to create

a successful relationship with another. 

~Begin to cultivate your own spiritually-connected loving adult self. 

~Learn to access your own personal source of unconditional love, wisdom, worthiness and guidance as the foundation for a thriving

and joyful partnership with another. 

~Transform your wounded false beliefs—your hidden inner barriers to love.

~Identify new ways of relating that are in alignment

with who you are on a Soul level.

~Become a vibrational match to your Soul in order to attract and create

a thriving relationship with another.

Step Four:

Becoming Magnetic 

to Great Love 

~Powerfully release the past and embrace the future.

~Create a somatic vision of love fulfilled sourced

from the deeper truth

of who you are.  

~Learn to magnetically (and quickly) close the vibrational gap

with  who you really are. 

~Revisit the original Calling in "The One" Intention.

~Identify your sense of self inside the future of love fulfilled.

Step Five:

Mastering Self-Love 

as the Foundation for Loving Another 

~Make a solid commitment to yourself as the foundation for making

(and receiving) a commitment from your future partner.

~Deepen into the cultivation of your own spiritually-connected loving adult self. 

~Cultivate the profound, yet practical, skills

of unconditional self-love as the basis for healthy partnership.

Step Six: 

Becoming "The One" 

~Deepen into the profound (yet practical) skills of evolving self-love. 

~Continue the cultivation of your spiritually-connected loving adult self. 

~Develop your capacity to self-soothe.

~Learn to take loving and empowered emotional self-responsibility.

~Deepen your ability to access your own personal source of unconditional love, wisdom, worthiness and guidance as the foundation  for love

and partnership with another.

Step Seven:

Receiving Love Into Your Life

~Source your identity from the future of love fulfilled.

~Anchor into a deeply magnetic knowing that great love

and partnership is not only possible but inevitable.

~Experience a guided visioning that directly connects you

with your future self and partner.

~Identify new developmental structures that support your evolution as "The One," cementing the foundation for a joyful relationship with another. 

 (A soulmate relationship characterized by empathy, good character, respect, patience, compassion, mutual recognition, kindness, communication, reciprocity, commitment, growth, laughter, safety, best friendship and the sharing of values and unconditional love.)

"I can see that my endless quest for the perfect husband

was really a search for myself.

~Elizabeth Taylor 

Private sessions are conducted on phone, Zoom

or FaceTime. 

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